AA,

"Letting go" doesn't have to mean "giving up."

I do believe you need to let her go (for now). I do NOT believe that your marriage has no hope, or that you should give up that hope.

At the worst case, something like 20% of people do remarry each other after divorce, with an overwhelming majority reporting that their marriages are better and stronger and healthier than they ever were before.

There's a long way to go here still.


Starsky


M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)