You alluded to holding off on sending an email and letting the good people here review it first, that’s a great idea, same with texts, how to respond, etc…I’ve done this multiple times and it’s been very helpful. I wrote an email to my FIL yesterday. Him and I are in the same profession and we’ve always had a really good relationship. Since the separation I’ve had zero contact with him. I never sent the email and I am sure I probably won’t, there’s no point. Over the last couple months I’ve tried to me as methodical as possible, trying my best to avoid knee jerk reactions.
Your 180’s look great. I am not sure about the moving one though. I’ve read parts, but not all of your sitch so please excuse me if I am missing something. If there’s OM involved is there really a reason for you to bother moving?
Me(M):38 W:43 Together: 14 Married: 11 D: 4 S:8 W wanted separation 5/5/12 Stopped living together 5/5/12 Currently DB’ing
“Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude”. Thomas Jefferson
