You can't beat yourself up too much over not taking care of your marriage when you were in it. If you do, then we'll all have to start beating ourselves up, if we had only done then what we know to do now there wouldnt be a DB website. LOL
Its ok to remember how you got here....as I told Denver I think...a certain amount of anxiety spurs us to improve, just don't let it over take you. Thats what I struggle with more than anything....allowing anxiety to overwhelm me and my thoughts and it paralyzes me at times.
