Sorry, just saw this. I would have advised you to wait several hours, and then respond "I'll have to look them over when I get back from my trip, and we can discuss then."
You can't STOP her from divorcing her, but you certainly are under no obligation to HELP her speed it along.
Starsky
I agree with what you said Starsky! I didn't respond to it yesterday, but she sent same text this morning, so I think I will respond with what you said.
I also agree with Denver, in that I need more time. Because for some reason i still firmly believe that she Loves me and wants to work through this, but it is still early & she technically has only been living on her own since June 25th. Before that we had an in-house separation in which I pursued etc...
The text seemed more like a general inquiry of whether or not I have read them yet, especially since she put that she noticed the error on the front page about the wrong Branch of Service for the Military.
But as it has been stated before, you never really know what's going on in a WAS head!
I am not looking forward to being gone for 2 weeks (& will miss kids etc.), but maybe it will be a good thing, because i really have no reason to communicate with her while I am gone. Especially since D12 has her own phone & I can just call her to speak with kids.
