It's actually what I woke up to, myself. First of all, I'm not sure that I could actually work with her right now. Putting the act together again would require some rehearsals which means a lot of time together and with OM still in the picture, I don't know if I can keep my head on straight yet. Besides, as 25 said, time apart might make whatever changes I've managed to make so far more noticeable than if we're together so much.
Another issue is that she might just decide to get her other band in on the action and rob me of my gig (She might not do it consciously but the manager might ask her if SHE wants to do other nights at which point, her and OM might actually benefit from this).
Also, yes, I think that she should fend for herself and I don't even want to tell her about the gig. Let her hear about it through the grapevine, and as 25 said, she can come and see me if she wants.
You are right Bond, she hasn't done a thing to deserve my attention so far and being too close to her will not help me stay detached (as detached as I am now anyways). You are also right that I have been enabling her and I plan on stopping that as much as I can.
Yeah Denver, both Bond and 25 can be a bit brutal sometimes but I know I need their no-nonsense wisdom and I'm glad to have them around.
Again, thanks 25, Bond and Denver for your insight on this. I know I'm a slow learner but one thing i did learn is to sleep over things before acting on them.
Freshman Class of 2012
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then
