I don't know honestly! I didn't respond to either text/question after she sent them per advice from ya'll & DR book etc... The text she sent right b4 the one about asking if I had a chance to look through papers for errors, was asking what time I leave on Sunday, & what time I come home on Friday the 31st. She sent another text somewhat shortly after asking if I would rather pick kids up from their school today (previously posted wife now teaches full time there), or at the college she has been going to full-time last 2 semesters. So I responded to that one stating that I would pick them up from the college b4 she went into her class. She said ok, cool I will be in parking lot by math building around 5:45ish & never ever brought up the fact that I didn't respond to her previous 2 texts.
So I picked up kids in parking lot. She was running late, so she didn't talk or even look at me. She just grabbed her bag & walked toward school. I didn't read too much into it though, cause I stayed in truck until kids jumped in. It all happened rather quickly for an exchange of kids because I think she was worried bout being late for 1st day of class. I think she is definitely staying busy with full-time teaching & full-time school, and hasn't really had to worry too much about kids cause they live with me full-time. It's very weird cause she was always Mother of the year thus far when it came to the kids, But once this all started & she started school full-time again, she really seems quite content with just seeing kids whenever.
Kids tell me when they are at her apartment, that she is very hostile to them & spends most of her time on laptop doing homework. If not on laptop, she is taking them to grab stuff from store or drive-thru. She will have it very differently next 2 weeks with me being gone & her having to get them ready for school, full-time work, & college. I hope it works out & know kids will be fine, I just don't want her to be so stressed out with all she has going on, that she takes it out on them while I am gone.
But there I go again over-analyzing things once more! Maybe she really is quite content with her new life? Like Starsky says: "One will never know what is (or isn't) in the mind of that little wayward spouse of yours"!
