I don't think I was hard and if it hasn't come across yet, I do think Mrs. D is to be greatly commended for trying.
If you read through the threads carefully it was to point out the reason why her H can't trust her. Plain and simple. Trust was broken over and over again and needs to be regained. It definitely isn't going to happen overnight.
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Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.