second time newcomer, back for more

[badcompany]

The action plan he gave me was to sit my wife down and tell her that if she's depressed, she needs to talk to someone (me and/or therapist) and if she doesn't want to do that, then there's medication (which he doesn't agree with)

I told him I have given her space and she hasn't talked to me about it yet. He said she shouldn't be discussing it elsewhere than me. He said its been two weeks, and that's entirely too long to go without talking about it