Went to see the therapist today. He said it raised some red flags that W was talking to her friend about her problems instead of me

He told me I need to sit her down and bring it up,

Which goes against the ideas I've gotten here about not to push and she'll come to me when she's ready

???

M 31 W 26
M 6
S 6 S 3
Separated 6/2008
Back together 10/2008
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