I picked up kids today. Events of the past weekend came up. DD says she wants to live w/X during the week, with me every other weekend and I can take her and DS for dinner a night or two during the week (basically X's presented terms). DS says he's worried about new school, wants to live w/X so he won't have stress of back and forth.
It's as if X opened their skulls and poured what she wants to happen into their brains.
I'm not sure how to handle this. I'm hurt they would accept/embrace such a change so easily. And that's where I am stuck. I'm having difficulty getting past the emotions of the sitch and deciding what to do/how to respond.
Comments, suggestions are welcome at this point.
"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12 Bomb and OM 12/15/06 Separated 01/02/07 Divorced 05/13/08 X married OM(OMH) 08/2009 Married 06/09/13
