I need some advice from anybody that has become a succesful story that did not get their spouse back.
Yesterday, like I said on my last post, found so much dirt about my W. She texted me in the morning because we needed to register SS13 at school and since all the bills (proof of residency) are under my name, I had to be present. We had agreed the day before that she was going to take some stuff for her, and she was doing so. She borrowed a big truck which she said was from a friend. My emotions are out of wack from the 2nd rupture, and was just going thru the motions. I went to my place (aunt's house) and laid down for a while, I had a migraine. W called me to ask me how I was doing, she did that several times until she went to my place to take some headache pills. She said she was going to return the truck to her friend. After a while I left also, and was driving around. I was telling my self, "this is only to clear your head", but in reality I was looking for my W. And like they say: If you keep on looking, you will find what you are looking for. I saw the truck my W was driving at a house, and also her car.
I went to my own house to pick up some stuff, and W's S24 (he was living there). He saw me all down, and tried to confort me, bad thing, his way of conforting me was to tell me all sort of bad things about his mom. My W is pretty much a known lair, so I do believe 90% of what S24 told me.
W has created a buch of lies to cover more lies...