Arsene I wish I didn't know exactly how you feel. Its the worst feeling I know. My ex H did the very same thing to our S8 as he was the only child that wanted to spend any time with his father. The OW (was a friend of mine..and neighbor...yes...) was there during my sons visits. This is the reason why the other 2Ss wouldn't go. They felt the betrayal too as they were best friends with her son. One thing I cannot forgive is the fact that they both comprimised the kids innocence, intergrity, and selfworth to name a few!! Since my discovery that my ex bought a house and moved the OW and her son in, it was the first time that I was able to talk to him without becoming emotional and with convection. I was so proud of myself for standing up to him. After I was done talking with him, I felt this huge weight lifted off my shoulders. I think I finally accepted that I will not keep living the way I had. I'm important too! You too will get to this point someday. Mine took me almost 2 yrs. I hope yours wont be as long. Best of luck to you and your daughter.
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