Quote:
This is how XH always was when married. He would get angry over something. Suddenly, I was getting the silent treatment and frozen out. Any attempt to resolve anything ended up in him being very rude, sarcastic and arrogant, letting me know if I hadn't had "provoked" him in some way, then he wouldn't have been mad and not spoken to me for 1 - 3 weeks.


Wow - really? Sounds horrible. How come you haven't joined us over in Surviving the Big D? Sounds to me like you're well rid of him.

Quote:
So WHATEVER. I give up and go back to my stance that Im missing the part that his girlfriend's attitude is my problem. Let it fester and rot until it blows up in his face. If the kids become rude and obnoxious to her on his time, well he can handle it. He wants to shove a blended family down everyone's throat, he can go right ahead. He can also deal with his daughters and his girlfriend not liking eachother.


Probably a healthy approach to take.