If they choose the OM/OW how will they see that you have changed as a person, if you're not going to be around them?
Truthfully who cares.
You improve for yourself.
Gotta disagree here. Whatever approach you end up using, I strongly believe that the whole point is to save the M. At least until the WAS is ready to move on themselves. It's why we came here, why we read the books... it's why we care...
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
