If I don't hand in any documents to the court by Friday then the case will be dropped and closed. They need our parenting plan financial statement...stuff like that. H filled, but had not done anything more. We had our initial status conference July 2, said we had 45 days to get things started or it would be closed.
Rock and a hard place.
I can see myself not doing anything and be fine moving forward in "limbo" status. But honestly on the other hand I'm ready to move forward, with or without him. A big part of me screams that I deserve so much more than limbo status. I can honestly say that I would not have any regrets should my divorce go through. I have lived on my own for 8 months, have truly grown as a person, tried to reach out and heal the R...no regrets. I know H growth is not on my same time line, I totally get that. But I can't live my life waiting for a circumstance to happen that I have no control of.
There's one fact that can't be debated-my daughters future stability is questionable. H is already homeless, he will be out of the military in 2 months. I will at least need a court order mandating he pay child support, and at least full temp custody for me until he has stability. But I can't get these if the case is closed.
I'm thinking I could file some, not all of the paperwork, just to keep it open, then file for temp orders. Ugh, so glad I have Zumba tonight.
Me-31 H-24 D3,D2 M 4 yrs WAW(me) 12/2011 role reversal 03/2012 (H)PA 3-6/2012 (H)D filed 6/2012 D deemed "inactive", closed 8/2012 I've moved on 9/2012
