I have a friend I could move in with whose husband is deploying in October so I could make the schedule with the house until Nov 1 or a week before Thanksgiving and move on then so I am atleast out of the house for the holidays but I would miss my dogs but in a divorce I wouldn't keep the dogs. This would not change our money situation but I would worry that she is in my house and if me leaving would look bad but it's something we are talking about. My dad suggested a protection order from him since he has war issues but it would keep him from the house but it would be hard to do that I think. Still making a game plan and just perhaps taking it a month at a time. Even suggested for the month of September he doesn't come to the house at all. We will see.
M-28 H-28 M-9 1/2 years T- 12 years PA- 01/02/12 (still going on)