Originally Posted By: Denver_2010
Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans


There is more than one path, there is more than one right way to do this. As evidence by you, Denver and me.


Agreed ^^^

I would add that, for me, there is no chance in h#ll that I would have continued to live in the same house, let alone the same bed, if my W was in a PA with an OM. I DO know that.

I can't remember if I've ever documented this on this board, but when I found out the W was actively confiding in OM and having an EA, which my W has confirmed, I believe, that that's all it was at that time, I was angry, I yelled, I threatened OM, and I kicked her out of the house. The night before this happened was the last night that she spent in our home until she moved back 2 months ago.

And that was just for the EA.

That is just me.



Oh... do have to admit that this was weeks before I found DB and DR or this website...

AND..

I spent that night and many more afterwards in the fetal position so to speak! LOL


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce