Be grumpy - as much as you like - but don't act on grumpy. act as if...
As SS pointed out - you can't have expectations of even the friendship at this point. you know where he's at, so maybe you have to expect taht even the friendship won't be equal for now.
Maybe you can look at it this way - if you continue to show what you expect from a friendship, with time, it will reflect back from him.
don't forget he's ultra sensitive right now. that's why he's reacting like this - he's sensing you've 'taken off' and so he's coming to see where you're at. Either take the opportunity to let him confirm that, or take off yourself. Either way, it doesn't matter for where you are at now.
The old resentments are still popping up - they take a long long time to really go away - and all i'm saying is just be mindful about where you're at with them
love ya - and the grumpiness will pass - you do have reason to feel it, but you don't have to act on it (saying that again, just in case you didn't get it the first time )
((((( )))))) zig
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