Wife just txted me and asked if I looked over the papers yet...I am not sure if/how to respond if at all. She said she wanted to keep this out of court like my previous posts on here & just do this together.
I have looked them over and made my changes, but don't want to give them back to her yet. Since they aren't officially filed with the court until we come do an agreement, I don't know what to do???
Denver stated I need time & should buy as much as possible. She hasn't reached out to me other than kid logistics, so we haven't had any arguments or tension between us. I did however txt her this morning to let her know I woul be out of town for 2 weeks starting Sunday. She said ok this morning, and just now txted "Have you looked over the papers? I knew about the Reserves error....
Do you think she was just asking general question? Or do you think that she is trying to move this along?
Advice or perspectives???
Suppo
I think that she is trying to move it along, sadly. You still only have the two choices that we talked about above. Again, others may disagree, but I STRONGLY believe that buying as much time for you M, and putting the emotional work on W is important. The risk is that you p!ss her off. But what's she going to do if she gets p!ssed over you not going along with the D easily? Divorce you?!
This was key to my personal sitch. As always, one size does NOT fit all.
Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
