Good stuff. Be sure keep your emotional state separete from his though. I only speak from my own experience that I'd let my emotions go up and down with my W's until I realized, I controlled my own response to life. It ended up making some difference in how we interacted in a positive way.
All this stuff is opinion so take what works for yoru sitch and discard the rest.
Me:45, W:45 S:16 D:13 M:22, T:25 Bomb: July 2010 Putting finances in order for "D" Continue to live in same home-separate rooms