I'm so happy to hear that Ryan is coming home. And what a PITA for you to have to deal with others BS about your mental health and what's best for Ryan ... they should be HALF as stable and competent as you are! Doubt many of them would have handled a lifetime of the challenges of a handicapped child -- now man -- with such grace and mental fortitude.
I'm so glad that the govt will pay for the one months mattress rental so you can be sure it's worth such a huge investment. Obviously IF it does make Ryan's quality of life better it's worth it at any price.
Stay strong with that nursing head bully. You're all rested up again and more than a match for her. My money is always on YOU!