Denver, Just reading your post about the timeline and how dark you were at different times and I really appreciate how it worked for you, but I do have one question. How dark is dark? Im sure its different for everyone, but at this point I couldnt be much darker without being rude.....we were both at S11's practice yesterday which happens to be at our house, at one point she waved and I waved in return....but when practice ended I made no effort to speak. I walked to my truck and chatted with the other coaches while S11 said by to her and when he got to the truck we left.
Is that rude or dark? Im sure its different for everyone but im looking for all opinions. After the thumping I took on Monday im gonna be as dark as I can possibly be for a while, but never want to be rude. And I think the reason is just what you said....everytime i've gone really dark for a few days she reaches out, unfortuantely then I see an opening and push on it too hard. So for now im gonna go dark and make a conscious effort to know that when she gives me a crack to not rush toward it, be nice but not overly talkative.
