I sent another apology text to W this morning for something specific 16 years ago. She said I was so nice for sending her these little notes and it made her smile. I'm a little confused by the response to be honest....I thought I might get a "thank you" but maybe this is really something she needs to heal.
There's a retrov meeting coming up in a few weeks on the Languages of Apology....I went ahead and forwarded it to W, let her know I was going, and asked her if she'd like to come along. Clearly, I need some more understanding on this topic, especially with regards to my W's Languages.