Uh, Linda, don't think we're going to find any answers here tonight either. Wish I could prove all our theorems and bottle them up to help others, but if only life worked that way.
Being a Monday morning quarterback can only help to a certain extent.
Sleep easy, girlfriend--because you know that you did everything in your power to change the outcome. For that, there HAS to be some big old blue ribbon that we can award you, don't you think?
Time to go home and tend to the sick. I'm booting out the needy one when I get there...
TTFN,
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."