Yes, it is. Sorry. And unfortunately he'll have to decide for himself to get help. You may want to get some more information for yourself on how to handle yourself in this situation. Not sure but there may be a forum here regarding the topic. I know the book covers its briefly.

You will come through this standing on your own 2 feet. Keep that in mind. Its a bumpy ride...

Me:45, W:45
S:16 D:13
M:22, T:25
Bomb: July 2010
Putting finances in order for "D"
Continue to live in same home-separate rooms