Sometimes people have exit affairs. They are done.
This is so true, and underscores the importance of getting a life, becoming strong and happy for one's self and moving forward "as if" to build the life YOU want.
It is so easy to get bogged down in trying to figure out the mystery of whether a WAS is having some kind of melt down and whether/when it will end. We can get trapped in hyper-analyzing what went down, why and how, thinking we'll somehow figure it out.
Only the passage of time will provide the answer. We can either do our best to be our best once that time has passed and we have our answer, or we can flounder never knowing because all our obsessing and anlyzing actively interferes with the answer becoming clear, if that makes sense.
me 45 H 46 T 5 M 2.5 BD Sept 6 2011 OW Sept 8 2011 Threw him out Sept 8 2011
