keep-going...you could have described my sitch with what you wrote above. of course there are some differences but overall, my struggle feels quite similar..going dark and leaving OW to fulfill his needs (because i too was not fulfilling his), boundaries vs doing something different.

I await feedback to your post and look forward to the opinions.

hope you are well

((( )))

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home