Well, I don't know if there is a book on this subject, Myrrh.
I didn't even know what it was until Trish and I hashed this subject out here on the board back in October. Her H (Dr. K) is a crazymaker and we sort of clued each other in.
Typically, a crazymaker does something (usually drastic) to get their needs met. It often has roots in childhood, and fills a need that no longer exists later in life.
Don't worry about what others might think about your hobbies. Most of the folks here feel the same way.
So go forth and do things that you and your H enjoy doing together. That's the one hard & fast rule here: you do things that bring the two of you closer together. If that's your lifeline to your H, then it's good.
Happy gaming!
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
