(((Val))) you sound much better my old friend. We have been at this for a bit. When you agree with the terminologies you can say you have detached. Stop letting those things bother you. Spinn with the earth and give yourself to the universe. You are so worth it. It trully does get better after a while. Once you begin to remember what a great human being you once were and how much better you can be. It has been painful I know. Wouldn't change this for anything. Sounds crazy right? But because of this mess I'm doing things that I would never have dreamt of. Don't get me wrong still have ups and downs but the hopelessness and helplessness are pretty much gone. Time to live and love Freedom.


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden