I believe that the LBS always gets to decide what is the END.
If it is not what you decided then it is not yet the end!
It's an interesting thought to reflect on... seems like there's nuance in the choice of words...
Me: 36 Her: 35 Together 7/09 Married 8/7/10 Separate rooms since at least April 11 "I've decided I want a divorce" 12/5/11 She moves out of state/files 2/7/12 Dissolution final 5/12
