She doesn't need to "demand" sole custody. The law gives it to her automatically. I think that she is already "in love" with OM (or in lust) and OM is already married so unless she agrees to become his second wife (which would surprise me). It's not going to happen this way.

"So what happens if you allow this to go on. Your W falls in love with the OM and then she demands sole custody of your D. Then what?"

What can I do? Really!!! What can I do???

I'm at wits' end MrBond. That's why I'm keeping the peace til I read DR. But if you think there is something else I can do in the meantime, I'm all ears.

Freshman Class of 2012

M-49
W-42
1D-10
T 10 YEARS
M 9 YEARS
EA/MLC 07/2010
Separation 28/05/2012
PA confirmed 31/07/12
W Asked for D 31/07/12
D on and off the table since then