I will however have to sit with her this week to discuss how to break the events to D8, who has been visiting my dad for the past two weeks. She was with MIL for two weeks prior and has no idea what has happened while she was away.

As painful as this all has been. I know the worst is yet to come in telling our very sensitive, very precocious, very intelligent little girl. Who happens to very much be "daddy's girl". I'm filled with anxiety over the thought. I'm heartbroken to be robbing her of her sense of innocence, security, and image of a loving family. I'm just plain horrified to see the reaction to the news. I do know that I want to be on the same page with W, but fear because we can't seem to talk about anything at all, that we will not be able to put up a united front.

Any and all advice would be greatly appreciated.