I have always wanted 7+7. I would accept alternating 4+3. My youngest is still nursing and very much dependent on W. I know that there are options (pumping, formula, etc). Even though I've seen the worst of her lately, she is and always has been a great mother.
I will be without a place to live come Sept 1. I have reserved a place beginning Oct 1. Until then my belongings will be stored and I will stay with friends. So custody becomes problematic for the month of Sept. The other issue I have is I am required to be on 24 hr call for my job 2-3 nights a week, it rotates, it varies, and there are emergency situations I get called in for even when not on call. I haven't figured out a schedule that gives me what I want (50//50), yet doesn't jeopardize my employment. There may be a solution, I just haven't been able to come up with one. Realistically, it would be very difficult for me to have my kids every other week, yet it's what I desire.
It would be great to think we could do a 7+7, and have W willing to swap days I have call, but I don't see a way to make it work without constant shuttling back and forth of the kids. Even I find that scenaro difficult to accept.
I'm not real sure what to do yet. I am gathering information, seeking advice, and praying about it. Ultimately, I want what's best for my children.
