You hit the nail on the head, Meredith. And I am in deep gratitude for your thoughts on negating that creeping fear.
I guess your points here are exactly why this is so confusing. It made no sense to me... Here he is, doing things for us at home, making suggestions on crown moulding, chatting with me at the vanity, and being cordial and cooperative--so my question is, WHAT GIVES?
Triple J and I are chatting at the moment, and he was kind enough to list these 4 positives:
1. there was no mention of the big D 2. He is not moving out of the area 3. He is not moving to get away from the sitch 4. He is making more room for the comfort of the children
So I will gladly take them right now until I get the facts that I need to help me make any decisions.
Now on the front is D9, who is in the nurse's office with a stomach ache. It's so out of hand...
I'll take the advice given here and just keep swimming. And for the record, I am not calling him today... it's up to him to initiate.
And things here at work are not exactly going smoothly. What a crappy week!
Consololation prize, fellow sharks: My stomach is too upset to eat fish today.
Big hugs and thanks.
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
