She has taken your self esteem away to the point that your agreeing to be a part part time father.
Logic would dictate that you would
1. Enforce a 7 x 7 rotation. 2. Seek legal council 3. Read and read and read on what happens to other men in your position in your state. 4. rebuild your self confidence. 5. If she has more money than you go after alimony as well for a limited time. 6. Listen to the threats and legally determine how to overcome them. Disposition only works so many times before a judge puts a stop to it as it wastes everyone's time.
If she moves 100 miles away and you have the precedence set that you only see the kids every other weekend. This says to the judge that yes you agree to this. Hence it will be easy to be a 20% dad.
If you want 50% then you need to take this on now. You need to be active in their lives. Which means. Getting them ready for school. Doing school work with them. Driving them to their activities. You know being a dad.
Do not give up this right so easy because you think it will make your wife happy. It will not. Spite is spite. And it will continue to come until you state what is acceptable and unacceptable behaviour.
If you both want whats right for the children.
Then 50% - 50 %
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