What alarms me most about your post is not seeing your incredible sense of humor. So what is the true issue?
I'm between not wanting to tell her anything and let her know everything, but this just angers her.
Work on the marriage you have. Your wife did not reject you because of your past. She embraced everything about you. Heck.. what your ex does upsets you. How can it not upset your wife?
Listen, focus on the present. Share with your wife. Use all the positive skills you've learned and use them to make a better, stronger relationship with the woman you love. Be a team.
