so don't even consider that possibility - things like this happen bets, just take it as another test of your endurance. if you can weather this test it will make you stronger and more able to handle the more difficult turns in our lives
bets - maybe your hubby has this need inside of him that says 'i gotta be able to prove to myself that i can do this on my own' - i really think that my husband is going thru this right now - not ever being on his own in his life
so many things can and WILL happen.
are you going to look at this as a stumbling block or a stepping stone to progress???