Looking for something to keep me fighting

[pulpwood]

My W also looked me square in the eyes and said "I'm done".

Maybe she is. But I believe none of what she says and only half of what she does.

I am not done. So I am trying to change myself. For the better. For me.

Just use this as a stepping stone. Think of those things you contributed to the trouble in your marriage. (Her complaints)

Take those things you don't like and change your behavior into something you do like.

Use the tool of agrement. If she pushes and you push back... she will just push harder. It is hard to argue with someone who won't argue back

We have all been there. It does get easier. It takes time.