I am scared that she will decide that she actually likes life without me and that she will not want to take me back.
Read that again....and then think DB/DR....then see what you think.
I get where you are coming from. Mostly that is the fear talking. She has been very hostile towards me over the past two or three weeks and even though I have tried to let go and detach it has been a difficult process. I am doing better at it, but it is still a scary time for me.
M 39, W 34 M 15 S 14, S 12, S 9, D 7, D 6 Separated: 7/2/2012 Served: 7/10/2012 Divorced 11/5/2012