No not giving her any yet. I'm moving out at the end of the month because we are renting our house and can't afford to stay here without her income. We've talked about seeking mediation. General agreements were that we would be able to divide property amongst ourselves, leave each others retirements alone, she would have the kids all week during school year with me picking them up from school, have them for couple hours daily and twice for dinner then every other weekend. She only asked that I pay 1/2 of daycare, provide health insurance for D's, and some additional money for gas since she wouldn't move near her work.
As far as my youngest, she is still nursing and very dependent on W. So I felt she was better off for now with her care. I'd prefer to have a shared custody sitch, but do feel one location during the school week would be more stable. We hadn't worked out the summer/holiday schedule yet, but discusses either reversing the week/weekend routine for summer or going half and half. A lot up in the air still when she left I know. It simply wasn't working under one roof. While I was away for a couple days MIL moved in. I asked her to go, she refused at first, then W said if she goes I go. So be it.
