Divorced. My fault, and cant move forward

[MrBond]

"We have alot of mutual friends. A couple that have met the girl he says isnt his GF, and then two other couples that havent met her, he hasnt spoke much of her - and when they ask questions, he avoids and changes the subject. What is your take on that?"

My take is that you're thinking too much about this GF. If they break up and he's done with you, then he could very well find another one right away.

There's always still that measure of shame and embarassment he could be feeling. I mean no one wants to admit that they're seeing someone else because their spouse cheated on them with someone else.

No sense in figuring out why.