"Unfortunately I let her be the one to end the conversation and she said she would call back later (no expectations though)."
You don't have to follow DR so literally. If she ended it, then that's it.
"She sent a text an hour or so later to let me know S8m/o is walking now. So that’s great, I'll miss that. Mistake #2, I responded immediately with a request for pictures."
Again, not a mistake. Don't sweat everything you do.
After reading your sitch, I would suggest IC for you. Especially with your drinking before. Have you ever done that? How much did you used to drink?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
