I'm hoping a little more time is all I need....hopefully the same for you.
sorry guys - 2 x 4 coming
^^^ is like saying finish the affair by january or i'm leaving.
give yourself time for the right things not the wrong things.
when you forgive OP, that energy is there to be used in a positive way towards rebuilding your marriage. why would you want to waste taking time over doing that when you could be doing other much more lucrative things?
Forgiveness is a conscious decision - it doesn't have a time line, it's now if you choose it to be, not some vague time in the future - that you can't foresee
someone posted to me on one of my threads about this - i'll go look for it and paste it here
is it more important to be angry and livid and crazy about OP or more important to focus on the now?
me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"
