Can anyone tell me whether the on one day off another day is normal?

Also can I take her talkin about future plans as a good thing even though I have not gotten a shred of anything other than said plans that she feels we can work?

Me - 30
W - 28
M 4
t 6
ILYBINILWY #1 Jan - 2011
Band-aid Jan 11'
ILYBINILWY #2 7/28/12