Quote: I also realize through your posts here that if he is going to tell me that he wants to make things work, it implies that he has made the decision to work on things.
My H TOLD me this, Betsey... which is why, I guess, we aren't talking either. Well, not what I consider "talking" we just chit chat. And it is all so hard and tiring to remaind confident and positive.
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.