Thanks M - you know I thought that, but he is all over the mutual friends that live two houses from me. Almost like, hes been hurt for so long, he wants me to hurt? IDK.
I honestly think shes there to fill his time. I remember when we first started dating - he told everyone about me, etc. Just dont get the same vibe with her, but i could be wrong.
Mrs. D,
Trust me for your own sanity you have to quit worrying what he is thinking. You won't ever know what is going on in his head right now. Down the road if you discuss this when communication is better between you, he probably won't remember why he spent time at mutual friend's house or why he talked about possible GF less than he talked about you.
So if you will never know why drive yourself crazy thinking about all the possibilities.
Just accept the fact that right now he is going to do things you won't understand. The less time you spend focusing on your H, the more time you have to focus on yourself and the improvements you will be making.
