Thank you for your feedback. I never thought about it that way to be honest. I have put a lot of blame on myself for not giving him the ' space' he asked for.
But when I read what you wrote...something clicked, because what is not in my timeline ( not enough characters) is that when he moved out- he moved in with her for the first two months before finding his own place.
I suspect you may think I have waited too long before taking a stronger stance, and i respect what you did so much. When I read how you stood for your M and family and W - I want to gain that strength too. thats what I want
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home