I know three people personally who killed the affair / Mid life by doing the following.

What... You want me to take care of everything and the kids and the bills and work why you go have fun.

Nope.

You are taking over all of it now.

I am done.

And they just left the person with all the responsibility of everything.

Went on a vacation.

It killed the affair. They suddenly had no spare time or energy to do anything else. Reality can be a real eye opener at times.

Mind you this was women who did this on the husbands.

When they came back they dropped the hammer down on what is acceptable and unacceptable behavior.

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