Someone once said as long as your thoughts are on your H(W) then they aren't on you. And if his(her) thoughts aren't on you then no one in the sitch is thinkging about you

Excellent. Brit I love this. We need to focus on ourselves! It's so true.

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home