Cracking up that you called me a vet. and holy hell H does this all time:
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"Sorry, just saw this -- busy day!
sometimes 2 days later. I told you he DB's way better than me and doesn't even want to DB! LOL.
Someone once said as long as your thoughts are on your H(W) then they aren't on you. And if his(her) thoughts aren't on you then no one in the sitch is thinkging about you....anyway what got to me is that I am worth time and energy and that by detaching I took my focus and energy off him and put it on me and I found that I was giving so much of my time to thinking about him that I was empty inside and I didn't know until devote so much of my energy to myself. I hope that makes sense.
If you feel like texting or calling here post here first and give it 24 hours. I learned that if I stopped reacting to my emotion, I generally made a better decision later on!
